Thom Rainer: 5 Reasons Church Members Disagree on Reopening

By Thom S. Rainer

It has become a common theme at Church Answers. We are hearing from pastors and other church leaders about members who have divergent opinions on the timing for regathering the in-person services.

No surprise here.

It might be helpful, however, to understand the reasons behind the disagreements. We see five major themes.

  1. Strong extroverts and strong introverts will have major disagreements on timing. The reason is obvious. The extrovert is dying to resume interaction with fellow church members. He or she thrives on in-person gatherings and conversations. The strong introvert, however, has done well seeing few people and interacting with few people during the quarantine. I fit the latter category.
  1. Different church members have different sources of authority on the coronavirus. Some of it could be related to political leanings. For others, it could be connected to the type of news that comes through social media. For some, they listen to certain friends and family members. In case you haven’t noticed, there are a lot of different opinions out there. 
  1. Age and health can be factors of divergent opinions. Two of the common themes about COVID-19 have been the vulnerability of the older population and those with underlying conditions. It would not be unexpected for those two groups to be more likely to prefer a later opening than an earlier opening. One of my sons has chronic asthma. I worry about him returning to in-person services too soon. 
  1. Parents with children may decide to wait. Most churches will not segregate the children from the adult worship services at the onset of the regathering. Some parents will be hesitant to bring the kids to the worship services for health reasons and for fear of disruption. 
  1. Attitudes toward change affect opinions about regathering. For example, if a change resistant church member learns that the church must have additional services for social distancing, he or she may prefer to wait until the church can return to “normal.” Change-receptive church members, however, are often eager to try new services and new ideas. They will be ready to return and experiment with the new approaches. 

It’s cliché for you pastors and church leaders to hear, but you can’t please everyone all the time. Take the path you deem is best for the church and for the health of those who will attend. Listen to voices of wisdom. And pray that God will honor your decision and protect everyone involved.

4 Responses to Thom Rainer: 5 Reasons Church Members Disagree on Reopening

  1. Troy Day
    Troy Day May 30, 2020 at 10:42 am #

    Pentecost SundayPLS talk to me on this one SOMEBODY WHO is opening churches for Pentecost Sunday tomorrow ARE any of these valid warnings Larry Dale Steele Doyle Rogers Isara Mo Jim Price Ray E Horton Michael Ellis Carter Jr. Ed Brewer Joe Absher

    • Ray E Horton
      Ray E Horton May 30, 2020 at 11:17 am #

      Troy Day We reopened two weeks ago, using a transitional plan where we are thinned with four options: indoor, outdoor around the courtyard, drive-in (using a radio frequency) and online. . Indoor, every other row and six feet between family units.

    • Isara Mo
      Isara Mo May 30, 2020 at 1:37 pm #

      In Tanzania churches were never closed so there is no re opening but continuation of worship

  2. Michael Ellis Carter Jr.
    Michael Ellis Carter Jr. May 30, 2020 at 5:09 pm #

    Not opening for months

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